Extroverts Explained... as best I can :)

This post is extremely long, my apologies!!!

Due to the recent surge in introverted pride, (don't get me wrong, I am thrilled introverts are identifying themselves) it has made me feel that extroverts are as misunderstood as introverts are.  In their explanation of what is an introvert, many of these blogs/posts/articles make extroverts seem... well... pretty terrible, and inferior.  In reading it as an extrovert, I have actually been slightly offended by what is being said. 

To me, the gist is: Introverts are wise introspective and intelligent souls who are misunderstood and mistreated by extroverts and a society that values extroverts, because no one understands them. Extroverts are loud, boisterous, party people who never think, just act, and are usually dumb, shallow, and superficial, with no feelings (and are constantly bulldozing over introverts).
These articles/blogs/posts also imply that extroverts need to accommodate introverts in all circumstances because, well, "it is their personality and so they can't help it". (Completely disregarding that being an extrovert is also a personality trait, and not something that can just be changed, but should also be accommodated in certain circumstances).

So psychologically the real question is: what is an introvert/extrovert? These are personality TRAITS (not a person's actual defining personality) that describes both how a person finds enjoyment, as well as how they recharge/recover when tired (this does NOT include intelligence, social skills, outgoing, shy, organizational skills, assessing situations, processing emotions etc.).  Myers-Briggs personality type indicator tests cover several major personality traits (and claim to not be complete!), and rank everyone on a scale in each category based on a (very long) test. and include (in addition to introvert vs. extrovert), sensing vs. intuition, thinking vs. feeling, and judgement vs. perception. When taking this test, a lot of people have characteristics in all categories and rank just slightly stronger on one side than another, and a lot of times the results are surprising. It is the combination of ALL the traits in different strengths that makes someone who they are (not just if they are introverted or extroverted).

I don't want to get into all the personality traits (you can look that up for yourself if you are interested) but to make my point, I am an ESTP - extrovert, sensing, thinking, and perception. The sensing and thinking part of me goes directly against what these blogs/posts/articles are saying about me as an "extrovert" - the MBTI (WAY SIMPLIFIED) tells me that I sense everything around me before I make decisions, and I think through my emotions and analyze them, finding solutions to problems... the articles would say "that can't be possible because you are an extrovert, so you are impulsive and verbalize everything!" NOT THE CASE!!

A little bit more about me to help you understand... I am on the more extreme scale of extrovert... basically I have little to no introverted characteristics (according to MBTI).  I have a severely introverted mother, an introverted but closer to mid-line father, a severely introverted older brother, and a fairly introverted husband.  Almost all of my close friends are introverts.  I spent the majority of my time growing up sitting in my living room with my family as they were quiet doing their own thing (reading, playing video games, more reading, etc.).  I remember overwhelming both my mother and father (and older brother, but that was more on purpose), frequently... probably daily. I always wanted to DO SOMETHING. (Some of that also has to do with my ADHD, but thats a completely different topic). They just wanted to sit and be quiet. OR if they FINALLY appeased me to go out, it was to a movie... someplace quiet... where you couldn't interact or talk... fuuuun...

Don't get me wrong, I can self-entertain. I can read a book. I can be quiet. I can knit. I can play with toys and make up entire worlds in my head... it is just EXHAUSTING. But being in a family of people that recharge by being quiet, I learned to accommodate them. I played outside where I had neighborhood friends, I played on sports teams, and I spent a lot of time hanging out with my younger brother who was borderline intro/extro because he was the only one who could tolerate me (he passed away several years ago, but that is another topic in itself).

Somehow I ended up with friends and a husband that are also introverted.  As with growing up, I generally end up accommodating them with what they want.  My family likes day long movie watching get-togethers and trips up to the mountain cabin where there is absolutely nothing to do and no people within a 40 mile radius. My friends like to sit and knit and read. And again, thats fine... most of the time.  BUT I NEED TIME TOO!! I hear a lot of comments like, "you always bring me out of my shell" because I am always the one that initiates going and hanging out (the one day a week, maybe, that we do!!).  That is harder than you think!  Especially growing up and hearing how miserable that made everyone, simply asking my introverted friends/husband to spend one evening with me always makes me feel bad. There is always that struggle between what I need and what I know would make everyone else happy... I would just ask them to remember that sometimes I need to be accommodated too, and them suggesting something fun to do would be amazing :) And it doesn't have to be out... it can be at home, just talking and interacting involved - not a movie, or sitting around, but board games or even just talking - IDEALLY it would be somewhere social, but again, I AM WILLING TO ACCOMMODATE!! (And no, going out by myself to a social atmosphere is not an option, because though I can have conversations with anyone, I am not friends with everyone - extroverts do have friends!! I want to hang out with my friends because I like them, I trust them, I like spending time with them, and THEY recharge me).

I am not sure why everyone thinks that society is geared toward liking the extroverted personality better.  Think about schooling... You spend grades k-12, then 4 years undergrad and possibly 4 years graduate school stuck in a classroom, in one seat, not able to get up or move, or talk, or interact... just expected to listen and be quiet and learn... ANY IDEA HOW MISERABLE THAT IS TO SOMEONE WHO NEEDS TO INTERACT?!?!?! It is so exhausting and DRAINING!  And to do it every day starting when you are 4yr-24yr?!?! I was CONSTANTLY in trouble. For talking. For distracting people around me. For being late to class because I was talking to someone in the hall. I remember so many teachers LOVED my older brother, would sing his praises, and would get so excited when they realized we were related.  Second day of school, "you are NOTHING like your brother..." one week into school, detention. Truthfully, I HATED school. And worse: STANDARDIZED TESTING... Here, sit in this seat for 6 hours straight, not speaking to anyone and answering questions. Oh. My. God. Kill. Me. Now. But that is how you move forward to get higher levels of education, and that is how they (falsely) determine your intelligence!  Doesn't sound like an extroverted society to me!  An extroverted society would have group activities, problems or projects with a discussion that determined if you moved forward or not. No individual tests... ever.

Professionally there are a gamut of jobs ranging from a lot of interaction to none.  Being an introvert or an extrovert does not effect how well you can do in life, even in severely social environments (a LOT of actors and musicians are introverted!!) This gets into the rest of MBTI.  So please, just because one person gets a promotion and another doesn't has nothing to do with E or I. The person that got promoted might go home, alone, prop his/her feet up and open a good book... INTROVERT!!

Here are some of the things those articles say about extroverts... some are true, some are not. I will try to explain each:
 
- Extroverts want to do everything and be involved in everything: This is true.  Mostly because the more things they are involved in = more opportunities for social interaction! This has nothing to do with trampling over introverts, it really is that if you cram every second of your day with things to do, then you will never get stuck at home!

- Extroverts hate being alone (from either boredom, loneliness, insecurity etc): Not true.  An extrovert can be alone, just like an introvert can be at a party. It is possible, and for a short period of time not a problem, but it is exhausting, and afterward we want interaction.

- Extroverts have to talk to everyone, all the time, about everything, and express their opinions about everything even before they think: Again, not true. Extroverts CAN talk to everyone. They do have opinions just like introverts do. They WANT to talk to their friends because it gives them energy. But as I explained before, there are other aspects to personality that determines how you handle problems and emotions and whether you are an E or an I doesn't matter.

- Extroverts are "clingy" or "needy" because they always want to hang out and talk: NOT true. I talked about this earlier. It is very hurtful to be deemed a clingy or needy friend just because you need some recharging. Many extroverts (myself included) have to constantly be aware, even when we feel the need to call someone or talk to someone, to suppress that feeling because you don't want to overwhelm people. (and no, a text convo does not count as social interaction).
 
- Extroverts don't have feelings: WAAAYYY not true. I think I have said enough to support why this is false.

- Extroverts don't listen: Just false.

- Extroverts always want to be the center of attention: Not true. We may not want to be the center of attention at all, it just ends up happening a lot of the time. (Maybe because we are always going around groups of people and interacting).

- Extroverts are intense, loud, overwhelming people: Not true. We get excited around friends because we are recharged. This often is externally demonstrated with talking and activity.  Like I said earlier, I try not to overwhelm my introverted friends with requests to hang out, and often feel that I do accidentally, even when only asking for the occasional day because I am having one of my OMG I NEED TO BE AROUND PEOPLE days. (Just like introverts have days that they have to be by themselves).

- Extroverts hate intellectual conversation and only like to have small-talk/idle chatter and have no substance: VERY false. Extroverts love intellectual conversation. We love to get deep and talk about meaningful things.  We have very deep ideas and thoughts. Just because we CAN make small-talk with anyone and everyone and it doesn't exhaust us, doesn't mean that is what we would choose to do.

Extroverts don't want to change introverts... and hopefully introverts don't want to change extroverts.  We all should learn to accommodate each other... Just like I spend a lot of time (like right now) sitting on the couch with my introverted husband after his long work day of having to be around people and letting him recharge, play on his phone, and not talk to me, when all I want to do is tell him every second of my day, or go out, or DO ANYTHING BUT SIT ON THE COUCH; I would LOVE for my introverted friends to go out with me (especially if it is their idea! So then I don't have to worry about nagging/clinging/being needy to them -hint hint-) after I work, because that is how I recharge! Being an introvert has nothing to do with being shy or boring or snobby.  If that were the case, I wouldn't have married one, or choose to be friends with them!!  They just sometimes need time to themselves to recharge.  Just like I am not a shallow, dumb, loud, clingy, party animal; I just like to be around people! :)

Book-Themed Baby Shower

As many of you know, I LOVE hosting.  I probably could have made a pretty nice career being an event planner :) There is only one thing that I like more than hosting parties; it is when I get to host a party for someone that I really care about. 

Today I was lucky enough to host a baby shower for one of my closest friends, Julie Barnwell.  When Julie asked me, I couldn't have been more excited.  Immediately (as anyone who has ever spent 5 minutes with me can imagine) my brain went into super-drive coming up with ideas for food, decorations, and a theme.  I decided on a book-themed shower for a few reasons... 1) Julie is neither girly nor sporty, 2) Kids now more than ever need actual paper books in their lives, 3) it gave me an excuse to decorate with other colors besides peptobismol pink... yuck.

So armed with this idea, I started brainstorming... and pinteresting.  I found a cool idea to have people bring their favorite childhood book to the shower along with a gift:

Then came the food and decorations... that was the fun part :) I decided to pair children's books with food, and after gathering some ideas from pinterest and coming up with a bunch, the shower was finally here:

Hop on Pop: Chocolate Cake pops... first attempt at Cake pops... I made a chocolate cake and cream cheese icing, then mixed the two together.  I then put them in the freezer for an hour or so then dipped them in candy melt (first the stick and stuck that in, let that sit for a few min, then the whole thing).  It is very hard to get them to stay cold enough to not fall apart, and the candy melt warm enough to coat them, but I am not complaining too much (the ones that fell off I just got to eat ;) )  I am sure there is some secret that practice reveals :)  My food labels are corner bathroom tiles that I got at Home Depot.  They are amazing!  Stand up on their own and reusable (with dry erase markers).  If they get messy with food etc, they wipe right off.  I only have 8 and I had SO many ideas for food I ended up doubling up on a few of them :)

Cat in the Hat: Vanilla cupcakes and blue (dyed) vanilla frosting.  I used red cupcake paper and then cut out quarter sized circles and wrote "Thing 1" and "Thing 2".  I thought these were exceptionally cute.  Props to my sister Natalie for making the frosting spiky like their hair!!

3 Little Pigs: As I said before, this was a group effort.  Matt had originally suggested doing "Wilbur in a Blanket" for Charlotte's Web... While funny, it was a little morbid.  So we picked the 3 little pigs.  

One Fish Two Fish: Goldfish come in so many flavors we just filled the lazy susan with 6 different flavors: 1 fish, 2 fish, cheddar, white cheese, pizza, pretzel, BBQ, and sour cream and onion fish! 

Julie had specifically asked for me to make my cheese dip.  Easiest cheese dip ever: Small block of white cheese velveeta, 1 can Rotel (I like the lime, cilantro), 1 block cream cheese, a few spoonfulls of sour cream. Melt the cheese first, then add the Rotel and cream. DONE.  Then you can get creative with it... I have added shredded chicken, ground beef/turkey, and bacon.  All are amazing... but then, it is really hard to mess up cheese... mmmm :)

 

 

Green Eggs and Ham: I made guacamole deviled eggs... basically guac (avocados, green onion, jalapeno, cilantro, lime juice - pour this on the avocados FIRST before adding the other ingredients and it won't turn brown on you, cholula, Worcestershire sauce, salt, paprika), the egg yolks from hard boiled eggs, then stuff the eggs like deviled eggs.
The Very Hungry Caterpillar: I made caesar pinwheel sandwiches... Use the Dole caesar salad kit and mix cream cheese with some sun-dried tomatoes and the seasoning packet in the kit, then crush the croutons and mix that with the lettuce, dressing, and cheese, then wrap it up in spinach wraps (to look like the caterpillar).

 Clifford the Big Red Dog: I made lemon puppy chow and put it in "doggie bags".  melt white chocolate and add lemon juice and zest, then pour it over chex and shake with powdered sugar.

Curious George: I made individual serving banana pudding... cool whip, condensed milk, whole milk, vanilla jello instant pudding,  cream cheese mixed together, then layered with bananas (dipped in lemon juice) and crushed wafers.

Peter Rabbit: Simple - Mr. McGreggors veggie garden and dip.

Blueberries for Sal: Again, simple - fruit tray and dip.

  

Several people had used the actual books as decorations on the table with the food it was paired with... I was worried 1) about the books getting messed up, and 2) space, 3) MONEY.  I had a LOT of food (which limited the amount of space and increased the number of books I would need to buy) and at $10 or so per book... it would get pricy.  So I printed the covers of the books and glued them to cardstock and hung them from the pot rack above where all the food was displayed. 

Make Way for Ducklings: This fit really well with the drinks (you know, water... ducks...).  I made cucumber and blueberry water, and punch - Random combination of blue Hawaiian punch, white cran-peach juice, sprite, and peach/mango sherbert... tasted pretty good!!

 Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs: Easiest meatball recipe ever! Frozen turkey meatballs, Heinz chili sauce, and grape jelly. Dump it all in the crock pot, cook for 4-6 hrs stirring occasionally.

I came up with the idea of having a "Giving Tree" Gift table (sticking with the theme).  Naturally, the Giving Tree HAD to be on the table!! So I made one!  I used a block of foam, cut it into a cylinder and used the edges I had cut off to make the roots.  After carving a wood/bark pattern into the trunk (as well as Baby Cora's initials in a heart- like in the book!), I spray painted it brown, then painted over with a lighter color brown.  Then I glued on some soft foam (what you used to put flowers in vases) to the top, and stuck branches in.  I finished it off by gluing apples to the branches.

Nothing would be complete without a wreath for the front door! When Saskia (aka my partner in crime for most crafty projects) and I raided Michaels, we found these ceramic letters that were just ADORABLE.  So we wreathed it up:

Good looking group!

 Because I am not a huge fan of shower games - some are ok... most are dumb and make people feel uncomfortable because no one really knows each other well, and they are forced to talk, plus the issue of trying to get everyone together to participate and corral them into the same room... SO I like to do ACTIVITIES.  The last shower I threw we decorated onsies.  This worked alright, but it required people to actually have drawing/artistic ability.  This time (again, sticking with the book theme), I decided to make an alphabet scrap book for Cora.  I (with my LOVELY assistants Natty and Sas), pre-made the scrap book pages with letters A-Z and numbers 0-10, and got a TON of stickers and other scrap booking items.  Then everyone picked a letter and decorated the pages however they wanted with that letter!  We had SO much fun doing it, we got the entire scrapbook done!!!  I think Cora is going to LOVE it!

Nurse Natty did the letter "N"

I LOVE THIS GIRL!! Julie, I can't wait to meet baby Cora Mae!!!

 I was so honored to throw a shower for one of my best friends!  What a wonderful day!!!

Annual Cost of Owning a Dog

Recently, a friend asked me a question about costs associated with owning a pet, specifically a dog.  I thought this was a great question, and something that more people needed to consider before adopting a pet of any kind. So here is my best breakdown of all the costs associated with owning a dog:

Annual costs for a dog: $2250 (or $188/month)- I find it easier to understand this number by breaking down the different costs associated with a dog to get a good/accurate answer:

Annual veterinary visit: $200 - the initial visit is going to be more, because you have to get the booster shots, spay or neuter surgery, deworming, etc, but as long as the dog is healthy, that's about what to expect.

1 year worth of flea/heartworm prevention: $350 - obviously will change depending on the products chosen and the weight of the dog, but that's what to be prepared for. **These should be purchased from your veterinarian.  OTC preventatives a) don't work, and b) can be toxic.  Remember, you get what you pay for.**

Annual food: $700 - Obviously this will also depend on the size of the dog and the type of food chosen.  A large bag of good quality food will average about $60/bag. **Remember, you are what you eat, and again, you get what you pay for.  I like to compare dog food to eating out - you could eat McDonalds every day for $1, or you could get a top cut sirloin at a fancy steakhouse for $50.  I tell people to stick in the Applebee's/Ruby Tuesday's range; quality food, but an affordable price.** 

Annual misc (toys, leashes, collars, bathing/grooming, beds, treats, crate, boarding etc): $400 - Initially obviously is going to be more to get all the equipment necessary for owning a dog, but that’s a good ballpark between $25-$35/month.

Annual emergency fund: $600 - I recommend setting aside between $30-$50/month for an emergency fund, starting when you get your pet. This is for “just in case” something happens where your pet is sick, needs hospitalization or emergency surgery. This is around the average monthly cost of pet insurance.  I prefer doing this over getting pet insurance because, with pet insurance, you are paying a company so if you end up not needing it, you never get that money back.  By doing this, if something happens (hopefully not in the first year or two) you are covered, and when the pet gets older and their medical costs go up (bloodwork, medicines etc), then you have backup funding. (BONUS, if nothing major happens, you then have a nice chunk of change to go on vacation).

Most people don't realize that pets do cost money, and sometimes, a lot of money.  Knowing what to expect and being prepared gives everyone the best chance at providing the best care possible throughout the life of their pet.

Getting Crafty!

After a very emotionally hard week of work, it was so good to do a few things just for fun! It has been fun having my good friend Saskia staying with me!  We both love to bake, and I enjoy doing arts and crafts (though she is MUCH better at them than I am) so it is good having her around for projects so they actually turn out well!

We started off the week making my first pecan pie in the multiple attempts before achieving pie perfection for Thanksgiving.  Thanks to Julie Barnwell (recipe provider) the first pie turned out a success!  We have one more recipe we found for a chocolate bourbon pecan pie that we are going to try.  If anyone wants to be a taste tester let me know!  Ive always been a cake baker and this was actually my first pie ever.  Come to find out that pies are surprisingly easy compared to cakes... why did I not know this??  

Lindsey: Ok Sas, read the directions, I have everything measured out.

Saskia: Mix everything together and dump it in the crust and bake it.

Lindsey: ... what else?

Saskia: Thats it.

Lindsey: ... THATS IT?!?!?

Apparently the challenging part is making your own crust, therefore I must attempt this. 

The second project that we undertook was a wreath for the front door.  After searching online for a while to find a nice UGA door decoration for the upcoming season I was sorely disappointed.  Either it was generic or it was expensive, or both.  So while we were at Michaels buying yarn (for project #3), we decided to make our own wreath!  Total cost: around $15! (MUCH better than the $50 ones that were for sale online!)

We used a foam wreath and black glitter ribbon to wrap the wreath making a beautiful sparkly base, periodically tacking it down with hot glue.  I also took about 6 roses, pulled them off the stems and glued them to the wreath.

I then took pre-cut wooden letters and painted them red.

Once they dried, I added some polka dots!  I used the top applicator of a Dr. Shoals home wart remover kit for the perfect sized dots since it is a round foam top, it worked really well!

Using an online tutorial we made two different bows, the black one underneath very large, then the smaller red bow and tied them together, then attached them to the wreath.

Using a small loop of ribbon to hang it up, here is the finished project!

The third craft project (mentioned previously) is knitting a blanket!  I had started a baby blanket for a friend about a year ago but never finished it.  So I had all this very soft pastel colored yard (white, yellow, blue, green, and pink) just waiting to be used.  Saskia found a fun and easy pattern online and we are each in the process of making a blanket.  I will post pictures when I am done!  Having all the generic baby colors it won't matter what Matt and I have in a few years, the blanket will be perfect!

We are also planning on making some Muscadine jam.  Neither of us have ever made jam before, but we have all the ingredients so this will be a fun adventure in the next few days!  We currently have about 10 lbs. of muscadines in our fridge that were picked by my wonderful brother and sister-in-law while they were walking along the nature trail in our neighborhood.

Going along with the Thanksgiving dessert theme, I have to figure out a pumpkin pie.  There are two that I have found online that I am going to try, but if anyone out there has a good recipe let me know!!

Labor day is coming up which means a few things: 1) a 4 day weekend for me (since the office is closed Monday I get Saturday afternoon through Wednesday off!) which means a potential vacation to either the lake or Savannah, 2) My family will be enjoying Dragoncon which we won't be attending this year since I didn't know my work schedule I did plan on attending, 3) My 27th birthday!... I love being a Labor Day baby! 

Earlier last week we received an email from the home owner's association saying there was a position open on the social committee.  Ive wanted to get involved with the HOA since we moved in, especially on the social committee, so I emailed back saying I was interested.  Turns out that the position that is open is the social chair (the previous chair just moved).  I accepted :)  Can't wait for the first event!

Thats it for now!  Until next time!  

Updates

 Sorry for slacking on my updates, but not a WHOLE lot has happened in the past month!

Matt and I celebrated our 1 year anniversary! We went to Lake Wedowee with a bunch of our friends to celebrate and ate the top of our cake.  It was really yummy!

At work I am really starting to get into the swing of things.  People are starting to request to see me (which is exciting), and I really love working.  It is hard at times, but for the most part it is very fun and rewarding.

We also had a joint open house with Natty and Hayden for the members of our Sunday School class at Connon UMC.  They came by for some food and to look around at our awesome home!  Here are some updated pictures of how the house is coming along:

Picture wall in the den above the sofa with the new clock

New wall decorations and new curtains in the den

Food for the Cannon members!  It was so fun making everything and looking for ideas on Pinterest!  We made: Sweedish meatballs, avocado stuffed pastries, a build your own fruit pizza station, rolo pretzel bites, oreo truffles, cucumber sandwiches, granola craisin cookies, and blueberry cucumber water and lemonade from scratch :)

Dining room table all set up!

screen porch furniture

more screen porch furniture

This week is the start of Saskia coming to stay with us for three weeks for her last externship!  It is going to be so great having her around.  Our mission for the next three weeks is to figure out the best pumpkin pie and pecan pie recipes for Thanksgiving!!!

Until next time!!

To Conquer List

The house is really starting to come along!! Besides hanging pictures on the wall (which you will have to come over and see all those), here are the MAJOR updates we have done in the past few months:

Guest bedroom #2, previously had nothing in it, now just needs some wall decor!

Foyer, now has entry rug and wall decorations.  Not pictured is the decorative stand beside the stairs with various wedding paraphernalia :)

Thanks to my Mom and Dad we now have a table and 8 chairs!!  Soon to come: 2 more chairs and a china cabinet (as soon as we have a few thousand to spend!)

We now have curtains in the kitchen!!

The start of some decorations in the den.  Not pictured is the awesome extra large clock over the couch that will soon be surrounded by photos

Projects for next month: Furniture for the screened porch and a rug for under the kitchen table. Get excited.

 I officially have a consistent schedule for the first time since I can remember!  I work Monday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday morning, and usually don't have anything scheduled for the other 3.5 days out of the week!  It is awesome to know that I have time to be productive, or just sit around and enjoy life.  The sign is up, my "doctor" shirts will be in soon, and I am feeling more and more comfortable at work. 

Now that my life has begun to fall into a rhythm, I have had time to sit back and evaluate how far I have come in my 26.5 years of life. I hate the term "bucket list" because the meaning behind it is all backwards.  My goals in life are not things I want to DO before I "kick the bucket", they are things that I want to conquer in my real life goal of making every moment count.  So here is my as-complete-as-possible "To-Conquer List": (naturally the X means I have already conquered it!)

(X) Become a Veterinarian
( ) Own a practice
( ) Have enough money to not have to worry about money
( ) Be there for a pet and their family for a first puppy/kitten visit through the end of their life
(X) Save a life (doesn't have to be human!)
(X) Make research advancements in my field
(X) Play soccer at the college level
(X) Marry my best friend
(X) Be a bridesmaid
(X) Buy a house
( ) Start a family
( ) Raise my children to be good people
( ) Become a team mom
( ) Coach one of my children in a sport (hopefully one I actually played!)
( ) Plan/host a major fundraising event
(X) Be close to my family and my in-laws
( ) Host my family for Thanksgiving Dinner
(X) Go bungee jumping 
( ) Go skydiving
(X) Learn to SCUBA dive
( ) Dive Crystal River with my Daddy
( ) Dive the Great Barrier Reef
( ) Hike the grand canyon
( ) Hike a portion of the App Trail (talking like a week's worth)
( ) Visit every state in the US
( ) See Niagara Falls
( ) Go deep sea fishing
(X) Walk/bike across the Golden Gate Bridge
(X) Go white water rafting
(X) Visit New York
( ) Visit the Galapagos
( ) See the Northern Lights
( ) Travel to the United Kingdom
( ) See Stonehenge 
( ) Travel to Australia/New Zealand
(X) Travel to Central/South America
(X) Hike in the South American Rainforest
(X) See the Redwoods
(X) Travel to Europe
( ) Visit Henny in Germany
(X) Hear the Pope speak
(X) Travel to the Middle East
(X) Float in the dead sea
(X) Be baptized in the Jordan River
(X) Visit Petra in Jordan
( ) See the pyramids
(X) Travel to Asia
( ) See the Great Wall of China
(X) Ride a camel
( ) Ride an elephant
( ) Travel to Japan (this one is for Matt)
( ) Go on an African Safari
( ) Go to Wimbledon
( ) Go to the Kentucky Derby 
( ) Do an Olympic Triathlon
(X) Run a half marathon
( ) Run a marathon
( ) Run a tough mudder/warrior dash
( ) Run a color run
( ) Run a zombie run
(X so far) Stay physically fit throughout my life
(X) Donate 1 wig (4, 10 inch donations) of hair
(X) Learn to defend myself
(X) Learn to shoot a gun
(X) Learn to play an instrument

That is currently all I can think of.  Feel free to comment and leave suggestions!! I am always open for new experiences!!

Until next time!

Getting in the Groove

The past month since graduation has flown by!

The first week, I decided to go to Charleston with Laura to visit Adrienne, Weatherly, and see the Matts (my wofford study buddies/lab partners, both named Matt).  We had SUCH a great time!! On the way down we stopped in Greenville to visit Rachel and Craig and see Chanel, all of whom are doing fantastic.  The beach was wonderful and VERY relaxing!

Amazing friends on a very educational boat ride :)

The next week, I was off to Amelia Island for Melia's bachelorette weekend with some wonderful ladies.  I only knew two of the other bridesmaids before that weekend and the wedding, but now I am happy to say that I have several more friends that I adore :)

It was a little windy on the deck, but the weather for the most part was perfect!

For memorial day we spent the weekend in the mountains with my family.  We went to an art festival in Blue Ridge, did some fun afternoon runs up and down the mountains, and watched some awesome SciFi original movies :)

Then came Melia's wedding last weekend.  I was so honored to have been asked to be part of it!  The wedding was beautiful, and the reception was SO fun!  We had to have a search party for the groom's ring that morning, do some minor surgery on her veil, we had one plant casualty during the ceremony and a groomsmen near casualty right after the ceremony, but otherwise everything went smoothly!  The bride looked AMAZING, and I know the two of them couldn't have been happier.  I love weddings, and I love these two wonderful people!

Beautiful!  I can't wait to see the rest of the formal pictures!

On another exciting note, my brother and sister-in-law FINALLY got their house!!  While we were house hunting, they saw a house on the same street as ours (actually about 8 houses away) that was just PERFECT for them.  We signed the contracts for our house and theirs on the same day, but because theirs was a short sale, those are complicated and take a lot longer than a regular sale.  But they FINALLY GOT IT!!! They moved in this past weekend!  It has already been amazing!  Matt and I made them a casserole as a "welcome to the neighborhood" gift while they were moving :)

Hayden and Natty's new house!!

Yesterday was my first official day of work ever!  It was a little stressful trying to remember to dot my I's and cross my T's (since every hospital does it differently), but I know in a few weeks I will have everything down, and it wont feel like I am running around like a chicken with my head cut off!  I thought that most of the day was just going to vaccine appointments, but it actually ended up being different and quite eclectic!  At the end of the day my brain was exhausted.  I think I am going to enjoy the "real world"!

Matt and I are also starting "Insanity" together (along with Hayden, Natty, and two of my new friends Elissa and Charlie), so we have an amazing accountability group to make sure we all die together.  We took the fitness test and wrote down where we are now so we can track our progress over the next 60 days.  Lets hope for some good results!

That's all for now!  Until next time!